If you’re one of those people who are always suffering and you feel persecuted by constant instances of bad luck probably think that the whole universe is against yours. Let me let you in a secret: your luck is not worse and or better than anyone else. It feels that way. Better still, there are simple things you can do to reverse the feelings of having bad luck.You must stop believing that what happens in your life has been reduced to the vagaries of luck, destiny, supernatural forces, or anything else outside your control. Psychologists call this locus of external control. It is a kind of fatalism, where people believe they can do little or nothing personally to change their lives. Because of this, they expect the best approach, to try to change his luck by various kinds of superstitions, or submit passively to whatever comes, while they complain that this does not match their hopes. Credit: NYC Mayor-2011.
Some others suffering from the opposite view. They have internal locus of control. They believe that what happens in your life is almost all by them, and even that when random events occur it is not important at Yes, but how to respond to this event.This makes them pro-active, committed, willing to try new things, and wanting to find the means to change what you don’t like in your life. They are not fatalists and not blame bad luck for what isn’t right in his world. They are looking for a way to make things better. some people are luckier than others? Of course not.
Luck is random so all people are equally likely to suffer setbacks. What is different is your answer. When things go wrong, they seek quickly or not the way to correct them. Those seeking the way to correct them not complain, do not feel pity for themselves, nor complain about bad luck. They try to learn from what happened to prevent or correct the next time and move forward with your life the best that can be.Nobody has more fortunate or less fortunate than others. It may seem so, in the short term (random events often come in groups, such as random numbers often they are together in several cases – so players tend to see patterns where there). When you take a perspective more, random is just… at random. However, those who feel that they are less fortunate, typically concentrate much more in cases short-term bad luck, convinced of the correctness of his belief. Related articles: do depends of my having good or bad luck? Is bad luck a fact that cannot be controlled? You’ve changed your bad luck for good luck?